Yummers :)
Tears does not always mean stop. It means be cautious, be prepared for aftercare, and be attentive for a safeword if needed.
This comment! OH SO MUCH this comment!!!
My relationship with pain is a complicated one. For the most part, I see it as a gateway to submission. Enduring pain, having my limits pushed beyond what I think I can take - it reminds me of my place.
But it isn’t always about my dominant or my submission. Sometimes, pain is cathartic. I need it to cry, to break down, to unload. I need it to prove it to myself that I can feel it and survive.
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